
"Summer time and the livin’
is easy…”
Gerald Lewis, Ph.D.
Finally, the winter snow has disappeared, the spring
rain has stopped and the summer sun is out. The flowers are in bloom
and the daylight stretches into the evening hours. School days are
winding down and vacation plans are around the corner. Pools, parks
and playgrounds abound with people and their pets. So why do we
feel any stress?
We must remember that our lives still go on and have
much of the same day-to-day stress regardless of the seasonal changes. Further,
there is a natural tendency to try to slow down a bit during the
summer months and to “smell the roses.” However, much stands in
the way of these efforts, such as: Little league or soccer may become
a regular evening activity that takes the place of dinnertime and
down time. The summer may be a time when the kids are at home requiring
Herculean efforts at planning and time management. Or, some kids
may be getting ready to go off to camp with all of the added organizing
and expense that entails. Vacation plans are looming with the planning,
preparation and expense that is involved. Coworkers are taking their
vacations and people may have to pitch in on extra job duties. The
weather may be a mixed blessing with allergies and air conditioning,
humidity and haze, bugs and burns. And, let’s not forget how easy
it is to take a day-trip anywhere with the traffic and crowding.
The goal of the above comments is not to stress us
or depress us further, but to be a reminder that we must take care
of our internal weather conditions (stress) regardless of what is
happening outside. Here are some recommendations:
- Use the evening hours to go for a walk while light
remains.
- If you are planning a vacation, be sure to leave
some down-time at home as a part of it. Don’t return from your
vacation on Sunday and head directly to work on Monday.
- Take lunch breaks and go outside for a 15 minute
walk.
- Try to limit traveling as the traffic can diminish
much of the pleasure of a day trip. Go to local parks and beaches.
- Take an adult education course at the local high
school… something novel and different (i.e. guitar lessons, art
class, yoga, Spanish, etc.).
- In the middle of a hot spell… remember how cold
it was this winter.
- Have flowers and/or plants in your house/apartment.
- When out on your deck or in your yard, use a fan
as it helps to keep the mosquitoes away.
- Try to watch less tv (its all repeats) and read
some books or magazines while on your deck, balcony, or in your
yard.
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